Example: An uncle with a mental illness who is excluded from the family unconsciously influences patterns of detachment in the grandchildren. When his name is mentioned and he is given recognition, the next generation's sense of belonging is stabilized.
Example: A mother who was forced to "take care" of her mother as a child has difficulty allowing her daughter to be a child. By recognizing that she herself should not have borne her mother, it is possible to repair the order and transmit flowing, healthy love.
Example: A man who feels a heavy burden towards his parents learns to see what he received from them – even if it was incomplete – and begins to move forward with his life with greater ease.
