A jolt like this I have felt since I met Shlomit- Orshina Königsberg from the moment when time, memories, wounds and dice intersected, these game dice, which never lie - my heart, or rather my soul, my soul, I understood what an emotional jolt is. And it was a wonderful shock. that releases conditions and patterns and perceptions and beliefs that I have nurtured for many years. Thanks to the brilliant guidance, deep and gentle at the same time, which gathered us with compassion and love for ourselves, I discovered and understood things that stunned me. no less. I always believed that everything was accurate, but the meeting with Shlomit, this meeting with her, was proof of that for me. Suddenly, just before the age of 55. I gave myself a wonderful gift: a meeting with Shlomit. I fell short of explaining what "meeting with Shlomit" means. But I guarantee that you will have a formative experience. Thank you thank you wonderful Shlomit, thank you from the bottom of my soul.
Iris Elia Cohen, 55
writer Author of the books "Main Heart", "Galbi", "Man-Woman-Bird" and more
I felt like it was like some psychotherapy session we went through in one game night. I have a feeling that someday it will have some kind of additional chapter after we apply some of the homework that each of us received yesterday. I also learned a lot mainly from the sharing of each one of them, so really thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of them for having the courage to truly reveal ourselves. You are all amazing to me and I hope that we will be able to work on it and accept our situation and that we will love ourselves exactly as we are. May we know that we are doing our best and that this is enough and satisfying. Each with her own uniqueness and with what she has to contribute with love to the world. Let's understand that this is already a lot.
Carmel Shkolnik, 44
Architect
My name is Einat Goldman and I have been an emotional therapist and family constellation facilitator for about 12 years, conducting workshops and teaching the principles of the method. I met with Shlomit and the game board she created at the annual constellation conference and I was curious to see what would emerge from such a game session. I arrived with a very great distress, an unresolved dilemma and a difficulty that affected me in those days and prevented me from dedicating myself to the conference until the end. We immediately dived into the game, like ladders and snakes, rolling a dice, going up and down, asking questions, refining my formulations and requests, focusing and defocusing, tokens falling, clarity that slowly comes and deep understandings about where I was. Shlomit supported and guided me throughout the session, precised me, reflected to me what came up for her versus what I brought with me, asked the right questions and helped me cross the great difficulty and distress I was in. Thank you so much for this wonderful session, after which things miraculously came together as if they never were. The game is fascinating and puts the whole truth inside, you can't evade or blur the truth in front of it, it brings out all the honesty and authenticity. I highly recommend trying it out and going on such a journey with Shlomit. With great love, Einat
Einat Goldman
Emotional therapist and family constellation facilitator for about 12 years, conducting workshops and teaching the principles of the method.
At first I was a little afraid, because I didn't know what surprises it would lead to. But this game is like life - it shows the ups and downs. It's amazing that every detail and every move was real, suddenly things from the past came to mind that I didn't believe I remembered. Lots of tokens fell out, I met challenges and above all - I got solutions. It really opened my eyes. I recommend it to everyone, the game helps us get the answers in the best way that suits us, and the art - opening the oyster and taking out the pearl, since yesterday, I can't stop thinking about it. Suddenly I understood... After 50 years of being sure that my problem was with someone, or something specific, and suddenly I realized, after an hour of the process, that the source is different, I got a new angle, no less challenging, but much more correct. It's like an Agatha Christie game, where the murderer or the suspect is the one no one expected. And that's what happened here. It allows you to jump over the barriers of the subconscious. The subconscious that always diverts us from the real goal. Amazing – at a certain moment, when I think I'm almost done, it takes me back, to the beginning of the game – and it's surprising – that it didn't make me disappointed, but I realized that I still have something to learn, like lessons in the elementary school classroom – "not good enough". Do it again... I had fun going back and learning again. And when you get through it, there's an incredible mental relief.
Yoel Ben-Assayeg, 57
Business Consulting
Since we made the game, it's in my heart, in my head. Wow, this is a very powerful tool, and it really promoted me - I have a lot of respect for you for finding this way. The personal item I used suddenly took on new meaning thanks to the results of the Smart Way process. It moved me so much, that I built a small shelf on the way out of the house, a reminder of the way.
Roy, 50 years old, Pardes-Hana
Music consulting and production
We each entered the game from our own direction, with our own path, with our own rhythm and pain. But as in life – at a certain point we stood before the same square. We had to decide – continue each one alone, or choose to go together. On our wedding day, we reached a light process, and discovered a depth we hadn’t anticipated. The game made us see ourselves – and our path – with new eyes. We realized that each of us carries a different backpack, with a different weight, with different stories. But precisely from our differences – the possibility of truly meeting was born. It was a game of life. “The Smart Way” is a gift for every couple who wants to deepen, move, discover, choose.
Yaara [34] and David [40]
A couple, together and apart
